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Britt's avatar

I changed my last name and the process was quite simple and fairly inexpensive. I had my stepdad's last name and wasn't close with him my whole life and like you said, the name feels like such a tie to someone for no reason. When I was in my mid 20's, I changed it to my mom's maiden name which was also my last name at birth (until she married my stepdad). I can't tell you how thrilling it was to suddenly feel like I belonged in my family again. It was everything. It felt like a small birth on the day it became official. If you want to do it, go for it. Life is too short to feel like our name isn't ours.

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DeLisa Atreides's avatar

I changed my last name after a 28 yr marriage/divorce. Watched movies and shows and kept putting the ones I liked with my 1st name..watched Dune.and Boom...there it was! Atreides!! From House Atreides! I LOVED the way my name sounded....DeLisa Atreides! Went to my attorney that handled by divorce and filed all the paperwork to change my name legally..and never looked back! This will forever be my name..I picked and paid for it! There is only 1 DeLisa Atreides! Soo I soo understand! It's soo amazing!

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